You’re tired of going through the motions of motherhood.

It’s as if every day is the same exact thing from wake-up to bedtime. You give all of yourself to care for everyone else. But you give even more because your family is unique, and their needs are different.

 

Your motherhood journey has been a roller coaster at best. What was supposed to be the most joyous event of your life was tainted when you found out you’d be a different kind of mom. And now you’re just trying to make the best of your situation. You can’t see the good in your life without focusing on what’s going wrong and some days you don’t even want to face how far off your real life is from the one you fanaticized about. Of course, you believe being a mother means putting your kids first, it’s just that the demands you face on a daily basis go beyond what most moms have to handle in years.

When you look at yourself today, you hardly recognize who you are.

You’re not the mom you wanted to be, you yell at your kids or tune them out. But more importantly, you’re not the woman you wanted to be. You’ve given up everything that made you “you” for the sake of making sure your kids had every opportunity to thrive. And this realization makes you feel nothing but selfish. You’re struggling to claw your way through the guilt and you’re looking for any solutions that are actually going to make you feel balanced and valuable.

Well, I’m here to tell you that you’re not alone. Being a special needs mom doesn’t have to mean sacrificing everything about yourself to make sure your child is ok. You and your family will be fine, in fact, you’ll be better off when you carve out time to escape from your overwhelm and do something just for you.

At Simplicity Coaching Solutions there’s something I’m positive about:

You deserve to care for yourself as much as you care for your children.

It’s really easy to get carried away and to step back when life throws you a curveball. Unfortunately, though, stepping back while you try to get your bearings often means shelving anything that doesn’t feel as immediate and important – and for moms, that means themselves. Disengaging feels like a reasonable option because getting your child to a place where they are OK is an utmost priority. But, in the long run, you do yourself a great disservice when you sacrifice so much that your wants and needs are unrecognizable.

This doesn’t mean you and your family can’t learn to navigate your unique challenges and succeed despite the difficulties that block your way. It simply means the balance you are seeking needs to come from within you first.

Often, when the worry you feel about your family’s needs starts to grow it can make you feel like taking any time or putting any energy into yourself is selfish. So much so that you turn into a shell of yourself at the expense of making sure everyone else is OK.

But the truth is, caring for yourself in the midst of family chaos is really hard. And it’s normal for moms to let themselves go thinking they’ll get to eating better, working out, or even reading a book sometime later. Although feeling responsible for your child being different has caused you to disconnect from yourself, your family chaos does not have to keep each of you from thinking of yourself once in a while. Instead, you can learn the tools you need to put yourself first so that your happiness and fulfillment can spill over to the others in your family.

That’s where Simplicity Coaching Solutions comes in:

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with years of experience working with kids who have sensory issues, I have seen the ways that families with special needs struggle. More importantly, I have seen the way that mothers of unique children shoulder the blame and responsibility for the child’s challenges. At Simplicity Coaching Solutions, my job is to help you undergo an emotional detox, so you can rid yourself of the shame and guilt you feel about your family’s situation. I wholeheartedly believe that once you clear your system of this negativity, you will come to a place of acceptance, loving yourself, and putting yourself first. You just need the guidance and expertise of a professional to help you look at the strengths you already have and how to focus your energy where it matters most.

I make it my mission to help moms accept their unique family situation, redefine who they are within the role of “special needs mom”, and learn the skills and techniques to care for themselves and their families. Simplicity Coaching Solutions is dedicated to treating every mom who goes through a coaching program like they are important and significant. It is my passion to inspire moms to strengthen who they are and pursue the life they want to live

Simplicity Coaching Solutions:

IS the place for moms of special needs children to maneuver toward a better mindset, and find ways to handle their situation so they can feel valuable again.

Perhaps you feel like you can’t even grab a cup of coffee without worrying that all hell will break loose while you’re gone. You’ve tried to have mom-friends and to spend time doing normal things, but every time you go out to an event you’re so terrified the phone is going to ring that you never enjoy yourself. You so desperately want to feel like a normal mom and a normal woman who can spend some time alone, but you have no idea how to put the intense tension worry about your child aside. That’s ok. By investing in the One Month Breakthrough package with Simplicity Coaching Solutions, you will create a more organized and structured home life so that you can feel confident relaxing and enjoying yourself outside your home. Click here for how we can help!

Or maybe you start to panic when you think about having any type of obligation other than caring for your family. You’d like to go back to work, but this means to travel or long hours away from your child. So, instead, you’re forgoing your talents and sacrificing things in life that would make you happy for the sake of keeping things functioning at home. You’re looking for encouragement as you entertain the idea of making tough choices between what you think you should do for your family and what you are called to do for yourself. When you purchase the Grow package at Simplicity Coaching Solutions, you will find the support and reassurance you are looking for. Click here for how we can help!

Sometimes you muster up the courage to take some time for yourself, but when you come home, you ended up feeling more stressed out and overwhelmed than you would have if you’d never left. You know you need to find out how to build self-care into your routine, but when you’re the sole person responsible for keeping life balanced, it’s hard not to be resentful of the fact that it all falls on your shoulders. You need a plan in place that is going to get your family on a path toward thriving that also let you have some time away. When you book the Connect package with Simplicity Coaching Solutions, you will be able to find a place you belong away from your family without feeling immense dread about what is happening while you’re not home. Click here for how we can help!

Ultimately, a freer, more enjoyable life comes when every member of the family is functioning at their highest level – even you.

You’re ready to break the cycle of blaming yourself and finally take care of who you are at the core. Simplicity Coaching Solutions can help.

Call us or schedule your FREE discovery call today to get started!